Our Vision

To create a sanctuary where our chosen family thrives—bound not by blood, but by love, care, and shared purpose replacing the desire to hookup.


We choose generational caring over generational wealth, providing sanctuary and a way of living sustained by a trust that protects our values beyond our own lifetimes—into the lives of those we love, and those they may come to love.


This is a legacy we cannot spend—only live.

Our Family

Clayton

↕️ 6’6″ 👟18

Our visionary entrepreneur, wellness advocate, and creative technologist whose work earned recognition as the best in America—two different years. He is the driving force behind our Tantric Sanctuary.

Rob

↕️ 5’9″ 👟10

Born in Germany, Rob came to NYC at 19 as an au pair, entrusted with passing down German values and heritage to three children in a prominent family. A lifelong student of movement, he knows all things fitness.

Accepting Applications!

His name is still unwritten, his face not yet revealed. A man of presence, depth, and quiet strength. When he arrives, we’ll recognize him, Not by what he looks like but by how he makes us feel.

Our Homes

Naples, FL

Set on 2 acres and surrounded by 50-foot bamboo, this expansive compound is more than a home—it’s a true sanctuary with an unmistakable aura.

Brooklyn, NY

2-Bedroom Zen Apartment above a local grocery store, just a short walk to the G Train. A rare find in the city—with a washer, dryer & dishwasher!

Intersted?

Must be done in order.

Anytime

Visit

“XCALACOCO” Our sanctuary in Florida has a gay guest house, real orchid farm and our private residence is on the compound as well. We love volunteers to help keep it going!

We’re hitting it off.

Vacation

You feel a connection? Romantic or otherwise we’d love help creating community. Stay at our guest house free of charge for a temporary vacation or staycation. – Ask us. No invitation required.

After 3 Years

Move in

By invitation only – Our trust stipulates the rent for you and those who move in past your lifetime. Its gradually reduced. The 10th year you’re part of the legacy triggering automatic inclusion as a beneficiary of the trust.

Tour Xcalacoco our Florida Sanctuary